Are you looking for a fun date night idea? Or a fun way to break the ice when communicating with your husband? Or perhaps you’re looking for a mix-up with your conversation starters and want something a little more light and easier to get into?
Enter: Would you rather questions for couples!!
Why Use Would You Rather Questions For Couples
This style of questioning, also referred to as this or that questions, is a great way to have some lighthearted fun, and get to know your spouse better while you’re at it.
Particularly useful if you’re struggling to find things to talk about, and the idea of having deeper level conversations just seems to overwhelming, keeping things fun and simple can allow you to relax and just enjoy being with each other.
Generally speaking, we don’t spend enough time just having fun in our relationships.
Yes, life is busy, and we have demands and commitments that we need to take care of, but it’s important to remember why we started dating in the first place, remember how much fun it was at the start of your relationship.
Keeping in touch with that fun, and the joy you have with each other, will benefit you and your marriage in more ways than you can imagine.
So, treat yourselves and break out the Would You Rather questions for couples, light some candles, pour a glass of wine (or two), snuggle up on the couch and ask away!
How To Use Would You Rather Questions
Would you rather questions are pretty simple to use – each question presents you with two options and you simply answer which option you’d prefer.
There are no right or wrong answers (but there are some funny ones), and your answers aren’t definitive. It’s a would your rather which can be hard to answer when there are only two options… but that is the point!
Because the whole point of this is to have fun, I’ve made sure these questions are light-hearted and shouldn’t spark off any arguments.
I don’t endorse questions that force you to feel uncomfortable in ways that don’t promote growth, and they’re all PG friendly so you can ask them on road trips with the kids in the car too!
I’ve also broken the questions down to theme categories so you can choose to focus on one category at a time or mix it up if you want more variety.
I highly recommend starting with the fun questions, they really are the best way to get the conversation flowing before you move on to the hard questions.
Alternatively, you could just start at the top of the list of questions and work your way through.
Fun & General Would You Rather Questions For Couples
1 – Would you rather go on a holiday to the beach or to the mountains?
2 – Would you rather watch a horror movie or a romantic comedy?
3 – Would you rather watch the sunrise or the sunset?
4 – Would you rather be pinched for 10 minutes or tickled for 10 minutes?
5 – Would you rather be stuck on an island with your best friend but no food, or alone with your favorite food?
6 – Would you rather give up social media or give up chocolate?
7 – Would you rather have to wear sweatpants every day for the rest of your life, or have to wear bedazzled clothes? (including to weddings, the gym… everywhere!)
8 – Would you rather be locked in a scary haunted house for an hour or locked in your ex’s apartment?
9 – Would you rather have no internet access for 3 hours today, or lose access to the TV until tomorrow?
10 – Would you rather be able to read people’s minds or see into the future?
11 – Would you rather spend a day playing video games or spend a day watching movies?
12 – Would you rather have to give up pizza or ice cream for the rest of your life?
13 – Would you rather win an Oscar for your acting or a Grammy for your singing?
14 – Would you rather be required to tell on someone every time they do something wrong, or reward them every time they do something right?
15 – Would you rather have bad breath or bad hair?
16 – Would you rather be a genius and know everything, or be amazing at any activity you tried?
17 – Would you rather eat a blazing hot chilli, or eat worms?
18 – Would you rather fall asleep easily, but wake frequently, or take ages to fall asleep and sleep through the night?
19 – Would you rather go shopping with your best friend, or a day spa with your spouse?
20 – Would you rather swim in the ocean or swim in a pool?
Personal Would You Rather Questions For Couples
21 – Would you rather spend the rest of your life as you are now, or as you were when you were 18?
22 – Would you rather write your life story or have your life story turned into a movie?
23 – Would you rather travel the world or travel around our country?
24 – Would you rather vacation in hotels or camp in nature?
25 – Would you rather have two kids or four?
26 – Would you rather go back in time or forward to the future?
27 – Would you rather be able to bring back one person from the dead for a week, or go back in time and undo one mistake that was made for yourself?
28 – Would you rather be above average height or below average height?
29 – Would you rather be stronger than everyone else or smarter than everyone else?
30 – Would you rather always be overdressed or always be underdressed?
31 – Would you rather always be uncomfortably early or a little late?
32 – Would you rather ask for help and get a task done quickly, or figure it out on your own and have it take twice as long?
33 – Would you rather always be a little too warm, or always be a little too cold?
34 – Would you rather be an extrovert or an introvert?
35 – Would you rather be the funniest person in the room, or the best story teller?
36 – Would you rather be the funniest person or the smartest person in the room?
37 – Would you rather go for a week without brushing your teeth or a week without showering?
38 – Would you rather only be able to speak in rhyme or only be able to sing all of your words?
39 – Would you rather work your dream job every single day, or a job you hated two days a week (for the same pay)?
40 – Would you rather forget your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?
Financial Would You Rather Questions For Couples
41 – Would you rather go through your entire life being super wealthy or super intelligent?
42 – Would you rather go on an all-expenses-paid shopping spree at Target, or be given $10,000?
43 – Would you rather have all of your bills paid for a year, or be given a luxury holiday every year?
44 – Would you rather earn more doing something you hate, or earn less doing something you love?
45 – Would you rather find $100 in a public toilet or $5 in your back pocket?
46 – Would you rather be the breadwinner in a relationship or earn significantly less than your partner?
47 – Would you rather get $1 Million now or $100k every year for 10 years.
48 – Would you rather have all of your current debts wiped, or be given $10k a year every year for the rest of your life?
49 – Would you rather have unlimited money or unlimited power?
50 – Would you rather have enough money steadily coming in to secure your own future or have a whole lot of money but not know how long it will last?
Health Would You Rather Questions For Couples
51 – Would you rather give up caffeine or alcohol?
52 – Would you rather go to the dentist or the doctor?
53 – Would you rather be required to start exercising or start eating well immediately?
54 – Would you rather have a food addiction or a shopping addiction?
55 – Would you rather give up eating fruits or vegetables?
56 – Would you rather exercise together or alone?
57 – Would you rather never having to eat healthy again, or never having to exercise again?
58 – Would you rather run 5 miles or do 50 minutes of yoga every day?
59 – Would you rather only being able to eat healthy food, or only being able to eat junk food?
60 – Would you rather only being able to drink water for the rest of your life, or only being able to drink soda?
Relationship Would You Rather Questions For Couples
61 – Would you rather relive our first date or our wedding day?
62 – Would you prefer a fancy date night or a date night at home?
63 – Would you rather a week in a hotel together, or a week at home alone together?
64 – Would you rather have a kiss every day or a hug every day?
65 – Would you rather give up kissing or give up hugging?
66 – Would you rather go to bed early and snuggle, or wake up early and snuggle?
67 – Would you rather do something nice for your partner or buy something nice for your partner?
68 – Would you rather give gifts or receive gifts?
69 – Would you rather sweet-loving text messages, or flowers when you get home?
70 – Would you rather retire together in the country or in a big city?
71 – Would you rather your partner get jealous easily, or one who didn’t care at all?
72 – Would you rather your partner be ambitious about their goals, or be supportive of you for yours?
73 – Would you rather your partner had close friends of the opposite gender or no friends at all?
74 – Would you rather be the couple everyone wants to be around, or the couple everyone wants to be?
75 – Would you rather receive loving text messages every day or a handwritten love letter once a year?
76 – Would you rather take a vow of celibacy or be in an arranged marriage?
77 – Would you rather spend 10 days straight together with your spouse with no breaks or 10 days apart?
78 – Would you rather a spouse that makes you laugh or one that makes you think?
79 – Would you rather a spontaneous day trip or a day in bed?
80 – Would you rather knowing a surprise is coming, or knowing what the surprise is?
Life Would You Rather Questions For Couples
81 – Would you rather live in your hometown or live where we are now?
82 – Would you rather clean a toilet or clean the shower drain?
83 – Would you rather have to clean every day or do the laundry every day?
84 – Would you rather hire a cleaner or a personal chef?
85 – Would you rather die young with no regrets or old with many?
86 – Would you rather have a photographic memory, or be able to delete any memory you want?
87 – Would you rather be happy but never fulfilled, or be fulfilled but never truly happy?
88 – Would you rather know the meaning of life, or spend your life figuring it out?
89 – Would you rather never being able to hear your favorite song again, or only being able to listen to your favorite song for the rest of your life?
90 – Would you rather go for a long walk on the beach with a stranger or ride the scariest ride at an amusement park?
Hard Would You Rather Questions For Couples
91 – Would you rather every meal for the rest of your life be a little too salty, or a little too sweet?
92 – Would you rather always be tired, or always be hungry?
93 – Would you rather know when you were going to die, or how you were going to die?
94 – Would you rather lose all the memories you made this last year, or keep only the memories you made this last year?
95 – Would you rather being able to only listen to the same 10 songs for the rest of your life or only watch the same 10 movies?
96 – Would you rather be able to talk to animals or speak all languages?
97 – Would you rather never being able to speak again, or never being able to hear again?
98 – Would you rather never being able to travel, or never being able to go home?
99 – Would you rather always have a full battery on your phone or a full tank of gas?
100 – Would you rather live your life in the last movie you watched or the last TV show you watched?
101 – Would you rather have 5 years with your true love, or never knowing the love of your life?
102 – Would you rather survive the zombie apocalypse with your best friend or with your soul mate?
103 – Would you rather take a vow of silence or attempt to survive Jurassic Park?
Where To From Here?
Hopefully this list of questions has given you a good laugh, helped you learn something new about each other, and helped you have some great conversations.
If you’d like to keep going with some great conversation starters you can this mega list of 120 Conversation starters, or try our conversation starter printable cards, available in The Relationship Collection (see below).