Whether you’re looking to attract new romantic love into your life, reignite the flames of old love, add more spark to your relationship, or find love within, these positive affirmations for love will have you covered.
Rather than focusing on the feelings of lack in your life, these affirmations will encourage you to focus on bringing in more positivity and finding gratitude for what you already have.
And it’s not just woo-woo beliefs (although we love a little woo here). Science supports that a positive mindset can not only lead to personal growth, but it can actually counter a negative spiral of thoughts too.
What Are Affirmations?
You may find yourself wondering what are affirmations, and whether or not they work, which is totally understandable.
Put simply, positive affirmations are statements that you make to yourself, which reinforce a positive aspect of your life. They are powerful tools that take positive statements to help overcome negative thoughts and allow you to focus on the good things in life.
Affirmations can be used to focus on improving aspects of your life that you feel need improvements, such as self-confidence and self-esteem.
While some people simply brush off affirmations as wishful thinking, research shows there’s much more to positive self-talk and positive affirmations than simply making you feel good.
They’re regularly used by professional athletes, performers, and other elite level professionals who use positive mindset strategies on their subconscious mind, like affirmations, to help envisage their success.
Daily positive affirmations are also linked to the age-old philosophy of the law of attraction whereby the energy you put out into the universe is that in which you attract back to you – put out positive love vibes and that is what will come back to you.
How To Use Affirmations?
Creating a daily ritual around the use of your affirmations is a to not only remind you to use them, but to give yourself focused time to be present and consciously aware of the affirmations you are repeating.
Some ideas for how you can use your affirmations include:
- journaling your affirmations each night, writing down the affirmations that are important to you and journaling more about why that is so
- standing in front of a mirror and repeating the affirmations to yourself
- recording yourself saying your affirmations and then listening back to them as you fall asleep
- reciting them out loud to yourself in your car when you’re stuck in traffic, or when you stop at stop signs
- affirming the affirmation to other people whenever they tell you about their day or ask how your own is going (for example, when someone asks how you are you can respond with ‘I am healthy and living my best life’)
- writing affirmations into a daily planner, repeating them throughout the day every time you open up that planner
- writing affirmations on sticky notes and posting them around your house or office
- repeating affirmations in your head as you go to sleep, first thing when you wake up, and throughout the day
- sending affirmations to yourself through text or email on a daily basis
- setting reminders on your phone with your affirmations as the text so you see them throughout the day
While the following affirmations for love are separated into different groups, this is so you can easily see which ones may apply to you, however this doesn’t mean you can’t use ones from different categories.
There may be affirmations to attract love that are more suited to you, even if you’re married, as you’re wanting to attract more love into your marriage.
Choose affirmations that you’re attracted to, that feel good for you, and that you like.
Keep these positive love affirmations close by to use regularly and help keep a positive mindset.
Positive Affirmations To Attract Love
Use these affirmations if you’re looking to attract new love into your life:
1 – I attract loving relationships effortlessly
2 – It is safe for me to show who I truly am
3 – I am worth loving and I accept that love in return
4 – My true self is loveable just as I am right now
5 – Unconditional love flows freely and I am open to receiving it
6 – My life partner will come into my life at the right time
7 – Love is all around me wherever I go
8 – My heart is open to receiving love
9 – Love flows easily into my life
10 – Loving connections are effortless for me and come very naturally
11 – I let go of past relationships of love and allow only positive love into my life
12 – It is safe for me to love and be loved
13 – I deserve to be loved and I accept that love in return
14 – Unconditional love and acceptance is my natural state of being
15 – It is safe for me to receive the love I desire right now
16 – I am a loving person and others sense this about me
17 – I attract only high vibration harmonious relationships that fulfil my heart’s desires
18 – I accept only the highest state of unconditional love and being into my life
19 – I am making room in my life for my soul mate and welcome them with open arms
20 – I am loved more than I could ever imagine possible
21 – The universe is bringing my soulmate to me, they get closer each and every day
22 – I see love in the small every day things
Positive Affirmations For Love In A Relationship
Affirmations for love can be used even if you’re already in a relationship. Think of them as a self development tool, and a relationship development tool, that can help you focus on attracting more of the positive love into your relationship and help you to focus on all the good that is already there.
Try these powerful love affirmations to help focus on the positive – you can even choose a daily relationship affirmation to say together.
23 – I am open to receiving unconditional love from my partner
24 – My partner and I feel a deep connection and love for one another
25 – We are both happy and in love in our relationship
26 – We support and uplift each other with joy and positive energy for the highest good of ourselves and others
27 – Our relationship is filled with trust, honesty, open communication, mutual understanding, and most of all love
28 – My inner being is filled with loving feelings for my partner right now
29 – I am grateful to have my partner in my life
30 – With every day that passes our relationship becomes more loving and passionate
31 – As my partner sends me loving thoughts, I return them back to him/her
32 – We are in love and happy together
33 – I feel that my partner and I are soulmates, meant to meet and connect in this lifetime
34 – We are in love and it continues to grow with time
35 – I happily give and receive love each day
36 – I accept love in all forms, and understand my partners love language
37 – I am in a loving relationship that brings me an abundance of joy
38 – I am worthy of love and worthy of giving love
39 – I focus on creating a healthy relationship
40 – An abundance of love flows through our daily life
41 – I am a loving and caring partner and give the best version of myself to my relationship
42 – I stand in my relationship with an open heart and open mind
43 – We navigate difficult times together and lean on each other for love and support
44 – We listen to each other, spend quality time together, and block out the outside world to bring focus into our relationship
Positive Affirmations For Love In A Marriage
These affirmations for love are specifically designed for couples who are married and the challenges and daily commitment that comes with married life.
Daily affirmations are a great way to connect with each other, especially if one or both of you have words of affirmation as your love language.
You can even use these affirmations as a starting point in creating an intention for your date night, or as an entire theme for you quality time/date night together (because you don’t need date nights, but you do need quality time).
45 – I choose my marriage and my husband/wife every day
46 – I see true love in the small gestures and moments of our day
47 – I will always put my husband/wife first and know they will do the same in turn for me
48 – I value the commitment we have made to each other and honour our vows
49 – I feel safe and secure in my marriage and know I am loved
50 – I communicate openly with my husband/wife and speak with honesty and truth
51 – I show my husband/wife lots of love and affection
52 – I am grateful for the love in my life right now
53 – I enjoy spending time with my husband/wife because they are my best friend
54 – My partner brings out the very best in me
55 – We are able to find the humour in almost every situation because we know we’ll be okay no matter what
56 – My husband/wife and I trust each other completely and know we will always be there for one another
57 – We both make time to talk through any issues or problems as they arise
58 – We communicate openly and honestly, even with difficult topics
59 – It is safe for me to share my feelings with my husband/wife
60 – I am grateful for the love in our home and feel contentment every day
61 – My husband/wife and I fall more and more in love each and every day
62 – My husband/wife supports me in all of my endeavours
63 – My husband/wife and I work together to create and build the life of our dreams
64 – We overcome challenges with ease because we are open, honest, and fully supportive of one another
65 – My husband/wife and I are both unique and valued as individuals
66 – We both contribute to our relationship in positive and uplifting ways, together making our marriage stronger
Positive Affirmations For Self Love
When looking for love in relationships, or bringing more love into our lives, one of the most important things we can do is love ourselves first. These self-love affirmations will help bring focus to how amazing we are as individuals and how important self love is.
67 – I completely and deeply love and accept myself
68 – I love myself first
69 – I learn more about myself every single day
70 – I let go of my fears and embrace my future
71 – I am strong, smart, and beautiful
72 – My life is filled with abundance and joy
73 – My love life is a reflection of the love I have for myself
74 – I am the true love of my life
75 – The only approval I need in my life is my own
76 – I trust myself to choose the right direction for my life
77 – I choose to surround myself with positive and loving people
Hopefully you’ve found some positive affirmations for love in this list that resonate with you and that you feel attracted to. Keep this list handy, save for later, or simply write down the affirmations you love and remember to create a daily habit of using your new affirmations.
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